#ABtalks with Memphis Depay – مع ممفيس ديباي | Chapter 25

2 يونيو 2020

Memphis Depay is a Dutch professional footballer who plays for the Netherlands national team. He previously played for PSV Eindhoven and Manchester United, and now captains French club, Olympique Lyonnais. He claims to have the heart of a lion and in this interview, we get to know the story behind why. Who is Memphis really outside of the football field?

Considering a youth full of aggression and fear, everyone has an opinion about Memphis and he is often misunderstood. He walks Anas through intimate details of his childhood and praises his mother for raising him as a single parent considering he was a ‘troubled child’. Even in adulthood, why is he often the target of criticism and judgment? Has he forgiven his father for leaving the family when he was just 4 years old? Memphis talks about how his mother was admitted to a psychiatric hospital, how a life coach saved his life and how his experiences thus far have taught him to give love to people now more than ever.

In this Chapter, we learn about a man who is not afraid to step out of his comfort zone, a man who treasures his inner circle of friends, and has started to appreciate himself again after enduring very dark moments throughout his life. Together with Anas, we discover a calm, yet ‘damaged’, Memphis; a human being whose ‘scars’ are proof of growth and maturity.

Anas Bukhash takes a seat with unique personalities resulting in exclusive and sometimes daring conversations. Each guest is hand-picked and each episode reveals details that have never been talked about before. The guests are known for being inspirational and influential; experts in their respective fields.

This show shines the spotlight on the raw and human side of various achievers, celebrities, influencers, trendsetters (and breakers) as human beings.

ممفيس ديباي لاعب كرة قدم هولندي محترف يلعب لمنتخب هولندا الوطني. لاعب سابق مع فريقي ايندهوفن ومانشستر يونايتد، والآن قائد الفريق الفرنسي أولمبيك ليون. نتعرّف معه على قصته مع قلب الأسد وهو ما يحب أن يلقب نفسه به، ومن هو ممفيس الحقيقي خارج أسوار ملعب كرة القدم ؟

في هذه المقابلة يحدثنا ممفيس عن طفولته وتجربته المليئة بالخوف والعنف، ومعاناته مع سوء الفهم ونظرة الآخرين له والحكم عليه. ويأخذنا مع أنس في حوار عميق من خلال سرد التفاصيل المؤثرة لطفولته وعلاقته بوالدته وإعجابه بقدرتها كأم عزباء على تربيته معتبراً نفسه بأنه “طفل مضطرب”. ولماذا كان حتى في مرحلة البلوغ هدفًا للنقد والحكم؟ وهل سامح والده لتخليه عنه وهو في الرابعه من عمره ؟ كما يتحدث عن تجربته مع دخول والدته إلى مستشفى للأمراض النفسية، وكيف استطاع مدرب الحياة إنقاذ حياته والدرس الذي تعلّمه من تلك التجارب في  حياته بأن يقدّر قيمة الحب ويمنحه للناس الآن أكثر من أي وقت مضى .

في هذا الفصل، نتعرّف على الجانب الحقيقي من ممفيس، ذلك الرجل الذي لا يخشى الخروج من منطقة راحته، رجل يقدّر دائرة أصدقائه الداخلية وبدأ في تقدير نفسه مرة أخرى بعد أن عانىٰ لحظات مظلمة للغاية طوال حياته. ونكتشف مع أنس ممفيس الهادئ والمضطرب بنفس الوقت. إنسان ” ندوب جروحه ” دليل على النمو والنضج.

يجلس أنس مع شخصيات فريدة ويقدم مقابلات حصرية، وأحياناً جريئة. يتم اختيار كل ضيف بشكل دقيق وتكشف كل حلقة عن تفاصيل لم يتم التحدث عنها من قبل. من المعروف عن الضيوف أنهم ملهمون ومؤثرون ومختصون كلٌ في مجاله.

هذا البرنامج يسلط الضوء على الجانب الصريح والإنساني للعديد من المنجزين والمشاهير والمؤثرين وصانعي الصيحات (ومحطميها)؛ كبشر.

00:00 – Intro
0:23 – How are you really doing and why I ask that question.
1:50 – You have an interesting name; Memphis. How did that happen?
2:57 – You became professional very young.
5:20 – They way I’ve been raised, single mother and absent father.
6:17 – How did you fill the gap?
8:30 – Are you angry at your father for leaving?
9:47 – You were a ‘troubled’ kid. What is ‘troubled’?
12:32 – How is your relationship with your mom?
15:36 – This guy saved my life, man. (life coach)
18:30 – Is it because of bullying, absence of father, gangs? How do you become like that?
20:00 – Mother fell in love with another man.
21:10 – The kids started to turn on me.
22:35 – One day, we just left without saying anything. My mom found the courage.
24:58 – It was a jungle, but I was the lion in the end.
25:52 – Seeing somebody you love suffering.
29:44 – Why are they making that a point with you?
32:13 – Where is your ‘circle’?
34:56 – I had to kick a few people out down the road.
35:31 – So it’s very hard for you to trust.
36:05 – You keep referring to yourself as a lion. Why?
38:33 – What are you afraid of?
40:02 – There’s a perception of Memphis.
52:14 – Best moment in your life so far.
53:23 – Worst moment in your life.
54:17 – Do you have any regrets?
57:11 – ‘Memphis’ in one word.

Produced by: Bukhash Brothers

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